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Book: Eleven Rings
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Being in the world but not of it
Phil Jackson quotes an old spiritual phrase in Eleven Rings. Being in this world but not of it. The idea appears in Christian tradition and in many contemplative paths. It describes full engagement with life while keeping inner freedom from its pressures, status games and constant noise.
For a coach in the NBA, this was especially relevant. Fame, money and media attention surrounded Jackson and his players. Getting lost in that world was easy. Jackson tried to stay grounded through meditation, reflection and a focus on values rather than headlines.
Practising this balance in daily life
Most of us face smaller versions of the same challenge. Work pressures, social media and consumer culture pull at our attention and identity. Being in the world means participating fully: working hard, caring for others and enjoying life. Not being of it means not letting external measures define our worth.
Practical habits support this balance. Regular reflection helps us notice when we chase approval or status. Time in nature, silence or prayer reconnects us with deeper values. For example, a weekly walk without devices can restore perspective after a hectic week.
Detachment does not mean indifference. On the contrary, people who are less attached to outcomes often engage more freely and generously. Therefore, they take healthy risks and recover faster from setbacks.
Moreover, this attitude reduces stress. When identity does not depend on every result, pressure loses some of its grip.
Community helps too. Friends who share similar values remind us what truly matters when the noise grows loud.
In the end, the phrase offers a path between withdrawal and immersion. Live fully, care deeply and keep a quiet centre that the world cannot easily shake.
